Ding dong.

BARK BARK BARK BARK BARK.

You open the door.

Your dog tries to squeeze past you.

You grab their collar.

There's a child dressed like a six-foot inflatable dinosaur standing on your porch.

Your dog loses their mind.

You finally get the door closed.

Everyone settles down.

And then...

DING DONG.

Welcome to Halloween with a dog.

If your dog already struggles when someone comes to the door, Halloween can feel like someone designed an entire holiday specifically to test your patience.

But here's my biggest Halloween dog-training tip:

Halloween night is probably not the night to work on it.

It's the night to manage it.

Sometimes management IS the best training decision

If you've followed me for a while, you've probably heard me talk about:

Allow. Manage. Teach.

There are things I can allow my dog to do.

There are situations I need to manage.

And there are skills I want to teach.

We need all three.

But sometimes we get so focused on “My dog needs to learn how to behave!” that we put them into situations they're nowhere near ready to handle.

Halloween can mean dozens of strangers repeatedly approaching your house.

Doorbells.

Knocking.

Kids yelling.

Masks.

Costumes.

People moving strangely.

Flashing decorations.

Things that suddenly move and make noise.

And every few minutes, it starts all over again.

If your dog already struggles with visitors or the front door, that's not a great learning environment.

It's the final exam when your dog hasn't taken the class yet.

So let's make Halloween easier instead.

If your dog bolts toward the door, create TWO barriers

One of my favorite Halloween safety precautions is incredibly simple:

Put a baby gate between your dog and the exterior door.

Don't rely on:

“He usually stays.”

“I'll hold his collar.”

“He knows wait.”

Your dog may be perfectly reliable when you're bringing in the groceries.

That's different from opening the door to three screaming children, one wearing a mask and another dressed as a hot dog.

Create a physical barrier.

Depending on the layout of your home, that might mean a baby gate several feet back from the front door or another secure barrier between your dog and the doorway.

Think of it as your backup system.

If someone accidentally opens the door wider than expected, your dog still doesn't have direct access to outside.

Some dogs shouldn't be near the front door at all

For some dogs, even the baby gate is asking too much.

Maybe your dog is fearful.

Maybe they're reactive to strangers.

Maybe they become extremely aroused when people approach the house.

Maybe they're a serious flight risk.

Or maybe you already know they're going to spend three hours rehearsing:

BARK! RUN! DOOR! PERSON! BARK! RUN! DOOR! PERSON!

In that case, give your dog somewhere else to be.

A bedroom.

A quiet room.

Their comfortable crate, if they genuinely enjoy being in it.

Somewhere away from the action.

Give them something appropriate to do and turn on the TV, radio, fan or white noise to help mask some of the sounds outside.

You're not “giving up” on training.

You're recognizing that tonight isn't the night for it.

Your dog doesn't have to participate in Halloween either

This is another place where I want to give dog owners permission to opt out.

Your dog does not need to greet trick-or-treaters.

They don't need to see everyone's costume.

They don't need to sit politely at the door while you hand out candy.

And they certainly don't need to go trick-or-treating simply because the family is going.

Some dogs would LOVE walking around the neighborhood with everyone.

Great!

But think about what you're actually asking your dog to handle.

Not just people.

People wearing masks.

Children running.

Capes blowing.

People walking strangely because of costumes.

Inflatable decorations.

Fake skeletons.

Motion-activated witches screaming from someone's front yard.

Flashing lights.

Strange sounds.

Groups of people approaching in the dark.

Candy and wrappers on the ground.

If your dog isn't already comfortable with that kind of environment, Halloween night isn't a good time to find out.

Leave them home.

They won't know they missed Halloween. I promise.

“But my dog LOVES people!”

Even friendly dogs can struggle on Halloween.

A dog who loves every person may spend the entire evening trying to get through the gate to greet everyone.

And remember what we've been talking about lately:

Loving people doesn't mean your dog needs access to every person.

Halloween can actually be a great reminder that boundaries aren't mean.

Your dog can hear people outside without greeting them.

They can see people through the window without meeting them.

They can love kids without saying hello to the 47 children who come to your door.

Sometimes the kindest thing we can do is say:

Not tonight.

And please watch the candy

This one sounds obvious until someone drops a pillowcase full of candy on the living room floor.

Keep Halloween candy where your dog can't access it.

Chocolate can be dangerous for dogs, and some sugar-free products may contain xylitol, which can be extremely dangerous.

Raisins and grapes are also toxic to dogs.

And don't forget about wrappers.

A dog doesn't necessarily unwrap a fun-size candy bar before eating it.

Candy bowls, kids' trick-or-treat bags and discarded wrappers should all stay out of reach.

If you believe your dog has eaten something potentially toxic, contact your veterinarian or an animal poison-control service promptly rather than waiting for symptoms.

Look at the rest of the environment too

Candy gets most of the attention, but take a quick dog-level look around your Halloween setup.

Can your dog reach lit candles?

Are there decorations they might chew?

Are cords accessible?

Could they get tangled in a costume?

Are glow sticks or other small Halloween items lying around?

And speaking of costumes...

Your dog doesn't need one.

If your dog is comfortable wearing something, wonderful.

If they're showing you that they don't like it, the Instagram picture isn't worth making them uncomfortable.

A cute Halloween bandana counts.

Management gets you through tonight. Teaching changes tomorrow.

This is the distinction I really want you to take away from this post.

If your dog goes crazy when company comes over, putting them behind a gate on Halloween doesn't actually teach them how to handle visitors.

And that's okay.

Management solves the immediate problem.

Teaching is what we do when the environment is controlled enough for your dog to actually learn.

That's when we can work on things like:

What should my dog do when the doorbell rings?

How do I teach them not to rush the door?

How do I help my dog settle when people are in the house?

How do I handle a dog who LOVES visitors a little too much?

How do I help a dog who is worried about visitors?

Those are training problems.

And they deserve more than trying to fix them while 30 trick-or-treaters are standing on your porch.

This is exactly why I've been creating mini-trainings inside The Pawsitive Life Membership

Sometimes you don't need another six-week dog-training course.

You have a very specific problem:

Company is coming over. What do I do with my dog?

That's why we recently added a Company's Coming Over mini-training inside The Pawsitive Life Membership.

These are the kinds of practical problems I want to help members solve.

Not just “How do I train my dog?”

But:

What do I do when people are coming over?

How do I handle this particular situation?

What should I allow?

What should I manage?

And what do I actually need to teach?

Because sometimes you don't need more information.

You need the right information for the problem happening in your house right now.

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Your Halloween plan can be really simple

Before Halloween night, decide where your dog is going to be.

Set up your barriers.

Prepare something for them to do.

Have some background noise ready.

Put the candy somewhere secure.

And decide ahead of time whether your dog is genuinely equipped to join you outside.

You don't get extra dog-parent points for making your dog participate in Halloween.

And you aren't failing at training because you use a baby gate.

Sometimes good dog training looks like teaching a new skill.

And sometimes it looks like closing the bedroom door, turning on Netflix, handing your dog something they enjoy and saying:

“You can sit this one out.”

That's not avoiding the problem.

That's choosing the right time to solve it.

Better Every Day

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