As a professional dog trainer, I’ve seen so many preventable issues arise—not because dogs are “bad,” but because we, as humans, often misinterpret their needs and communication. The truth is, most dog-related problems (including bites and behavioral issues) could be avoided if we simply took the time to understand them better.
So today, I want to share the top three things I wish every dog owner knew—things that would make life safer, happier, and more harmonious for both dogs and humans alike.
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1. Not all dogs like other dogs—and that’s okay!
It’s a scenario I see all too often: A well-meaning dog owner insists their dog must meet every other dog they come across. They walk up to a stranger’s dog, ignoring the other owner’s polite, “Please don’t bring your dog over,” only to be shocked when the interaction goes south.
The reality? Not all dogs want to say hello. Some dogs are fearful, some are in training, some have had bad past experiences, and some simply prefer the company of their humans over other dogs. Forcing a dog into an unwanted interaction can create anxiety, stress, and, in worst cases, lead to fights or bites.
🔹 What to do instead:
- Always ask before approaching another dog. And if someone says no? Respect it.
- Advocate for your own dog! If you know they don’t enjoy other dogs in their space, don’t be afraid to say, “No, thank you,” and move on.
- Learn to recognize stress signals (like lip licking, turning the head away, stiff body posture). If you see them, remove your dog from the situation.
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2. Dogs don’t communicate like humans—They don’t want hugs & kisses!
We love our dogs, and it’s natural to want to express that love the way we do with other humans—with hugs, kisses, and close face-to-face interactions. But to a dog, this can feel threatening and uncomfortable.
Dogs have their own ways of showing affection—through body language, play, and proximity. But when we try to hug and kiss them, many dogs tolerate it at best and feel trapped or defensive at worst. This is a huge reason why bites happen, especially with children who don’t recognize the warning signs.
🔹 What to do instead:
- Show affection in ways dogs actually enjoy, like gentle petting, belly rubs (if they like them), and playing their favorite game.
- Pay attention to their signals—if they turn away, yawn, stiffen up, or pull back, they’re saying they’re uncomfortable.
- Teach kids (and adults!) that dogs don’t need to be hugged and kissed to know they’re loved.
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3. Dogs are not stuffed animals—Especially around kids!
This one breaks my heart because it’s so preventable. Dogs are not toys. They are living, feeling creatures with their own boundaries, yet I constantly see situations where kids are allowed (or even encouraged) to:
❌ Hug and squeeze dogs tightly
❌ Climb or ride on them
❌ Pull their ears, tails, or fur
❌ Lay on top of them while they sleep
❌ Take food, bones, or toys away
And when the dog growls, snaps, or bites? The dog is blamed—when in reality, the humans ignored all the warning signs leading up to it. A dog should not have to put up with rough handling just because they live with children.
🔹 What to do instead:
- Teach kids (and adults!) to respect dogs’ space and body language.
- Never leave young children unsupervised with a dog. Even the most patient dog can have a limit.
- Create safe spaces (like crates, dog beds, or separate areas) where dogs can retreat when they need a break.
- Supervise interactions and step in if your child is being too rough. Prevention is key!
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A little understanding goes a long way
If we, as dog owners, took the time to truly understand our dogs—what they love, what they fear, how they communicate—we would prevent SO many problems.
This isn’t about being overly cautious or never letting your dog interact with people or other pets. It’s about setting them up for success. It’s about respecting their boundaries, advocating for them, and creating a safe and happy environment where they can thrive.
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